Dear Livi,

My parents are always yelling at me for spending too much time on my phone and computer. I admit that technology is a big part of my life, however I do not see it as a problem. The majority of the time I spend using my computer and phone is for school purposes. My mom always talks about how when she was a kid, she got her work done without a computer. She doesn’t understand how times have changed. Sometimes she even takes my electronics away for no reason and it really irritates me. I need her to hear me out but she always thinks I am talking back.

Help me,

Technically tormented

Dear technically tormented,

Sometimes it is hard for parents to understand that the world we live in today is centered on technology. Times have evolved. You should try showing your parents that you’re not absorbent in your phone and technology. Stay involved in lots of extracurricular activities, spend quality time with your parents, and make sure to keep your grades up. This way they will have no reason to worry. Another thing to remember is to avoid utilizing your phone in family situations such as at the dinner table. If your parents don’t see you using your electronics frequently, then they will assume that you have taken proper responsibility and limited yourself.

Love,

Livi